This is one of our ‘How to Use your Sex Doll tutorials’. A realistic human-sized sex doll is a large investment and it is important to protect that investment by unboxing and handling your doll correctly. Keep the box your doll came in a horizontal position. And open the box from the front, not the back or the sides. The head of your love doll will be packaged separately. It needs to be packed separately to protect it from damage and reduce the size of your package for easier handling. Remove the head of the doll, the wig and anything extra that came with your package, placing it somewhere safe. Remove the packaging and protective foam inside the box. Do not remove the protective packaging on your doll's hands and feet!

If your silicone TPE girl is a full-sized sex doll (over 145cm) model and it is your first love doll, handling it might prove difficult. We recommend using the pair of white gloves that came with your package (extra gifts = almost always included) when first handling your silicone girl. One trick to lift the body from a horizontal position is to position the doll in a hook lying position. Then you can lift the doll with one hand under her back and one under her knees.

If your doll is too heavy for you to get her out of the box, try gently rolling her out onto a soft surface. Once your doll is out of the box, slowly remove all of the packagings. Take extra care when handling the hands and feet as these are the most sensitive and fragile parts of your sexy sex doll. If your doll is a budget cheap affordable sex doll take extra care when first moving the parts of her body. How much is a budget sex doll? Or what is considered a cheap love doll? Anything under 1000$ including shipping and tax is considered a low price budget sex doll. Most of our girls are either budget or mid-ranged love dolls. The most notable differences between a low range and a high range silicone TPE girl are the face, chest and belly button. If you bought an affordable doll or received it in less than 10 days, extra care is advised. Slowly move her toes apart, check between each toe so the material is not sticking together. Do the same with her arms and inner thighs.

On a rare occasion, a TPE doll might have cracked skin or white powder on it. If it has white powder, do not worry, this is an essential and important part of taking care of your TPE sex doll’s skin. We do this to our dolls to protect their skin and recommend you do the same after receiving it. If she has cracked skin, you can fix it by applying a generous amount of baby oil via non-alcoholic wet wipes or a towel (you no longer intend to use). Cracked skin is an issue we have not had with our dolls for over a year now but if it does happen, 99% of the time it can easily be remedied by a slow and gentle cleaning with baby oil.

Now it is time to attach the head of your new silicone TPE woman. Apply a little bit of baby powder to her neck area and take the screw and small round attachment that came with the head. Slowly and gently screw the head on your doll. Do it gently and carefully so it does not damage the material as the head and body come together at the neck area. Once you feel the head can’t go any tighter, stop. Do not screw the head in super tight. She should be able to easily turn her head from side to side without pressure to her neck area. If you are satisfied with your doll and do not wish to return her, we recommend a full-body cleaning. We always clean our dolls before shipping but even so, she has been through a long journey. Like humans, love dolls like to stay clean as well. As to the box, if you have space, we recommend keeping it in case you might need to store or hide your doll for whatever reason.

Most importantly, please enjoy your adult sexual doll and have fun.

CLEANING & CARING FOR YOUR DOLL

Cleaning your doll is very important. If you want your doll to maintain her beauty and last many years, proper care is required.  These are our suggestions.

We recommend cleaning the genital area of use after each sexual contact. If you are using condoms and water-based lube every 2-3 uses. As for the whole doll itself every 2-4 weeks. Excessive full body cleaning can damage the doll. Be very careful when handling a wet doll as her skin is more sensitive and likely to tear.

 WHAT CLEANING MATERIALS TO USE?

• Antibacterial soap (no alcohol content)
• Water (lukewarm or cold)
• Talcum powder (baby powder)
• Light sponge or swab sponge
• A non-abrasive drying cloth
• Wet paper towel (no alcohol content)
• Regular paper towel or soft toilet paper (unscented)
• Cotton Towels Large (same or similar color as doll’s skin tone)
• Enema Douche & Vaginal Irrigator
• Glass or metal cup

 HOW DO I CLEAN MY DOLLS BODY?

The most important things when cleaning your doll is to use as little water as possible, be as gentle with the sponge or cloth as you can, and to dry with a towel, which is the same or similar color as your doll’s skin tone.

To avoid dirt and bacterial build-up, we suggest a thorough clean every 2-4 weeks. Depending on your usage, you may consider cleaning more frequently. This should be done in the bathtub or shower. The head of the doll can be removed (if it isn’t a fixed head model) and cleaned separately but not required. Do not submerge the doll or the head in the water. Use a soft material as a cushion for your doll before placing her in the bathtub. If nothing else is available, use the packaging of the doll as this cushion. Since the doll has a metal skeleton it is also advised to place a large plastic bag under her so that you do not scratch or damage your bathtub. By using the shower head and a light sponge or cloth, go over the doll’s body, carefully scrubbing every inch. Everything must be done in a light and gentle manner. Many owners enjoy the experience and look forward to seeing their doll dripping and wet.

The neck and the head of your doll must be hand washed, without the use of the shower head. Too much water and the neck screws might develop rust. Clean the wig of the doll separately. Do not get water in the doll’s eye.

Proper drying is done with cotton towels. Use the towels to pat dry. Do not scrub, do not pull the towel over the doll’s skin. Gently pat the surface of the doll until it is dried.

HOW TO CLEAN HER HOLES?

Cleaning her vagina, anus, and mouth is a delicate and necessary process. There are 2 methods that we can suggest. The enema douche way or the swab sponge method.  The enema douche method is the most widespread and best way to clean the dolls orifices.  Before you begin to clean the doll, position her on her back with legs spread as wide as possible.

 Enema Douche Method

1. Make an antibacterial solution with water and soap
2. Fill your enema douche kit with this solution
3. Have a glass or metal cup in hand
4. Push the solution inside the doll using the douche’s nozzle. For the nozzle to slide in easily without lubrication, squeeze the douching kit as you do this. As the liquid pushes out, it will be easier and safer to insert (repeat when pulling out)
5. As the solution goes inside the doll, push the glass or metal cup underneath her hole, to catch the liquid coming out
6. Repeat as many times as necessary
7. Switch to a water solution and repeat as many times as necessary
8. Dry the inside with a soft cloth or swab sponge (paper towels if nothing else is at hand). Make sure to push it in all the way.
9. Put a swab sponge or small paper towel inside to absorb any remaining moisture
10. Remove everything and let it air dry (test for moisture if it is needed). Apply powder to the outside area

 Swab Sponge Method

1. Coat a small swab sponge with an antibacterial solution (warm water mix with antibacterial soap)
2. You can now use this sponge to clean the vaginal or anal orifices. Insert the sponge lightly in the orifice, and repeat until it is clean
3. Take out a new, unused sponge and now repeat with only water
4. Insert a soft cloth or paper towel to remove any excess moisture.
5. Once you dry the doll, apply talcum powder to the exterior of the orifice.

 HOW DO I CLEAN THE DOLLS HAIR?

Cleaning the doll’s hair or wig is the easiest thing of sex doll care. Simply remove the wig and clean it in the shower. We suggest antibacterial soap but you can also use shampoo. Very little cleaning agent is needed. After the wig is wet, use your fingers to untangle any stray hair or knots. Then wash again. Do not pull on the hair! The shower head will untangle most of the wig on its own. We do not recommend using a comb or hair dryer! The wig will dry on its own in max. 1-2 days. If you desire to comb the doll’s hair, make sure you buy a separate wig that is designed to be combed and meets your needs. 

 HOW TO REMOVE CLOTHING STAINS

 A common problem with realistic love dolls is that certain clothing, bed sheets might leave stains. If you have a light skin doll, try using light colors like white, grey, pink or red. Black clothing will almost always stain a light skin toned doll.

If your doll has already been stained there is one method that you can use to try and remove it. Baby oil will remove some of the stainings. Use some wet towels and baby oil on the stained surface. If you see it working, repeat until most or all of it has been removed. This is the only instance where you can scrub your doll. But make sure you use a lot of baby oil. After the oiling process, you must wash the surface and use lots of talcum powder in the end.

While this process works well in many cases, we strongly suggest prevention and using proper colored clothing. Faux leather and dark, wet synthetic materials will usually stain a doll. If your doll is wet there is a higher chance it will get stained. Also, if you are storing your doll on a bed or couch, make sure to place a light colored bed sheath underneath her body. Preferably a sheath that you won't be using for something else. 

  STORAGE & HIDING

 We suggest storing your doll on a bed, couch or another soft surface. If you cannot do this due to privacy and lifestyle reasons, you can store it in its original box.  When storing be very careful of the following things: sharp surfaces, sunlight (damages skin), dust (cover your doll), staining (certain bags can stain your doll with their ink content).

The best hiding place for your doll is under the bed or inside a storage bed. This is the least likely place your doll will be discovered. Some people use storage cases or special treasure chest type couches. If you are concerned about what people might say if they found your doll, we recommend keeping her clothed at all times, when not in use.

You decided to take a chance on love and consider one of those lifelike sex dolls you’ve been seeing around. It takes a while, but you do your research, pick out the one that makes your heart skip a beat and hope for the best. The huge box arrives at your doorstep and you struggle to take it in with the help of the delivery man. It’s going to be a special day and you know it. You feel butterflies in your stomach as you hastily open the box and peek inside. This is the moment you’ll never forget. Once you see the contents of the package, you recoil in both fear and disgust! The box is filled with big rocks on top of which are two sleeping cockroaches and one extra-large condom. Jackpot! Bingo! You are now the lucky owner of the world’s most expensive cockroach couple. Because you see, those two cockroaches are not single. You don’t even get that. They are in fact lesbians. And the condom you were eying for one last shimmer of hope, expired yesterday. But despite all of this, you are a positive man and think ‘If I put those two rocks together and lube them up, they might make a decent anal masturbator. Yeah, I got this’.

Don’t worry, something like that never happens! Unless you buy our cheapest doll (muahaha!). No, you don’t need to worry about stuff like this. The truth is most love doll buyers are satisfied with their purchase. Now, will your first doll be perfect? Probably not. But what we can do is give you the necessary information to make sure you get what you want and that you have a good experience. Whether you’re buying a doll from our sex doll shop or from a different vendor, these are the steps we recommend. It might seem a little complicated, but most of it is just common sense. 

 1. DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT FROM A LOVE DOLL

In case you are looking for companionship with the added benefit of sex and intimacy, a larger and more expensive doll is the way to go. But if you just want an affordable upgrade to an oral masturbator, big butt toy or a better foot fetish sex toy, we recommend going with a smaller and cheaper doll. For foot fetish dolls, do not get one with standing feet as they have ugly metal sticking out. And if you want a girl that can deep throat, make sure she is at least 145cm tall because her mouth might be too small or tight. Decide what you want. The recommendation that I wish I’ve gotten before getting my first doll is not to go with a teen faced doll and to go with tanned skin, instead of white. I realized that I liked the dolls with mature faces and darker, tanned skin because it made it more realistic, more real. That’s me. You’ve got to decide what you like yourself. If you’re not sure about what you’d like, visit the doll forum or watch sex doll videos.

 2. READ THE DESCRIPTION

Read the description at least twice and if you are still uncertain about something ask the shop owner. The pictures of the doll will most likely have more makeup on than the one you will receive. So your girl will have a more natural look. Obviously, you can apply your own makeup as you see fit. Even the cheapest sex dolls will have some sort of semi-permanent makeup applied before shipping. If you order a customizable doll make sure to double-check the settings. These girls are expensive so you have to make sure you get what you want. This includes shipping time or payment methods as well. If you want her by the next week, don’t go for a customized option as they can take from 30-60 days to get to you. But if you want a super realistic sex doll, one that will look like a human, there will be a significant waiting period. The world’s best sex dolls are nothing less than art, modern sculptures of incredible beauty. And art takes time.

 3. MAKE THE PURCHASE AND BUY

One of the most important things you need to consider is your credit card limit. Most people make purchases with credit cards, which might have a limit on what you can spend on a daily basis. So if you’re considering a 2000$ doll but your daily credit card limit is 1000$ the payment won’t go through. Most payment options have such a built-in limit for security, so you might need to edit your settings in this regard. During the checkout process, double check your shipping details and be vary of the browser’s autocomplete (especially if you’re not the only one using that computer). While modern site checkouts don’t require you to register to the site or even enter a phone number, make sure you use an email address that you will be regularly checking until you receive your doll.

 4. RECEIVING THE PACKAGE

The most important thing is keeping your doll in a horizontal position. Don’t stand the box up! The pressure is not good for the doll. Your realistic sex doll will most likely arrive by an Express Courier service like DHL or TNT. If it’s the first time you order one, it might be a little awkward. This isn’t a male masturbator or some pocket-sized sex toy for men, this is a human-sized synthetic female. The box will be big. And it will be heavy. If you're worried about what the courier or people around you will think, don’t! It’s none of their business, and to be honest, most of them wouldn’t care anyway. If the delivery man asks you what is inside, instead of being defensive (which could lead to more questions) just tell him it’s a sculpture, mannequin or decoration. You must be polite and respectful to the delivery man as you might need his help later on. And always keep and transport the box in a horizontal position.

 5. TAKING THE HEAVY BOX INSIDE

Unless you buy the smallest silicone girl you could find, the package will be heavy. Due to large size and long shape of the box, it might prove extremely difficult to move it inside, especially alone or without a dolly cart. Try to ask the delivery man to help you take it in. He is only required to bring it to your doorstep or gate, so that is why you need to try to be polite, otherwise, he might not want to assist you in taking the package into your home. But not all delivery men are cheerful, happy people, so some will flat out refuse to help. Yes, it sucks but that’s just how it is. If your doll is over 35kg and the courier doesn’t want to help, try tipping him or offering him a small fee for his assistance. You don’t want to break your back by trying to lift a huge heavy box alone. It happened to me on several occasions that the delivery man was so rude and lazy, that I couldn’t wait for him to disappear, and I was left with taking the box in by myself. And in this angry state I didn’t consider how hard it is to move such a box. I hurt my back and my body was sore for a week. Nowadays I use a dolly and do a little stretching before moving the package, especially with girls over 40kg. Also, move slowly with the box. You don’t want to drop it which might damage the doll and you don’t want to bump into things in the house either. Yes, it’s super exciting, much like Christmas morning, but try to keep calm just for a little while. It will be worth it.

 7. UNBOXING

Now we’re not going to talk in full about the unboxing and assembly, that’s for another blog. What we’re going to talk about is doll safety and protecting yourself from a bad purchase. First, place the box in a horizontal position, preferably on the ground. Now take a camcorder, a camera phone or a webcam (whatever is at hand and can make a video) and film the unboxing. This is to protect yourself. If the doll has a problem you now have proof and can dispute your order. This is very important! Even the most trusted online sex doll shops might make a mistake. Or maybe the delivery man did not handle the box correctly. We’re all human. But what you need to do is protect yourself in case something does go wrong. A love doll is a big investment and you should get what you paid for. So, unbox the doll and make sure you record it on video